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It’s been nearly a month since I last sat down to write and record a post on this blog.

It has been the longest stretch without writing I have had in a very long time.'

I ached to do so!

First of all, my apologies for essentially dropping off the radar with zero notice!

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<p>It’s been nearly a month since I last sat down to write and record a post on this blog.</p>
<p>It has been the longest stretch without writing I have had in a very long time.&#8217;</p>
<p>I ached to do so!</p>
<p>First of all, my apologies for essentially dropping off the radar with zero notice!</p>
<p>I thank you for your patience as vaporizing is most assuredly not my style.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">Have you ever had one of those stretches where no matter how hard you try or how honorable your intentions what you desire to do simply does not happen?</span> </em></strong></p>
<p>If you have, thanks for the company. At least I know I am not alone!</p>
<p>This essentially describes the blur of the past month of my life.</p>
<p>In case you are not aware, <span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong><em><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="http://brucercross.com/if-these-walls-could-talk/">Moving Day 2015 a la Cross</a></em></strong></span> was the last time we had to visit.</p>
<p>Much has occurred in the past four weeks.</p>
<p>Certain situations or tasks were anticipated as part of the equation. Some were not.</p>
<p>Boxes were unloaded from not one, but two moving trucks as our “<em>stuff</em>” required extra cargo capacity.</p>
<p>By the end of the first two weeks in our new house we were reasonably settled with respect to the move-in process.</p>
<p>Other than a few miscellaneous things to do, we were headed in the right direction.</p>
<p>However, an unwanted visitor decided to pay a visit for the second time this year.</p>
<p>I wrote about how <strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Uncertainty</em> </span></strong>entered my world in a previous post which you can find <strong><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="http://brucercross.com/breathing-easier-and-giving-thanks/">here</a></span></strong> if you care to follow along.</p>
<p>In Round Two, <strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Uncertainty</em> </span></strong>came calling again this time draped in a boxer’s robe with the name <strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Biopsy</em> </span></strong>written across the back.</p>
<p>It required something of me – <strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>stepping into the ring</em>!</span></strong></p>
<p>During Round One in early February the referee declared me the winner on a technical knock-out.</p>
<p>At the time all tests for “<em>suspicious cells</em>” were negative and my appearance on “<em>Man TV</em>” signaled no issues.</p>
<p>However, the doctor recommended a three-month follow up.</p>
<p>Although I was inclined to by-pass the appointment, wisdom (<em>and my loving wife</em>) decided it was best to err on the side of caution and I went to the appointment as scheduled.</p>
<p>Due to the transient nature of my life the first half of this year, I had to find another specialist close to my new location.</p>
<p>I was requested to give another sample of “<em>liquid gold</em>” as part of a specialized DNA based test. In fact, I did a redo on the test the day before our move as the first sample went bogus for some reason.</p>
<p>A few days after our move, I had the follow up appointment with the specialist.</p>
<p>The DNA test came back with an unwanted read – <strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>some sort of chromosomal possibility of abnormal genes associated with bladder cancer</em></span></strong>.</p>
<p>I can honestly say I did not want to hear anything of the sort.</p>
<p>It did play on my mind a bit – OK, a lot, when I let it.</p>
<p>Letting it play on my mind did not occur often, but it did exist from time to time.</p>
<p>Talk about the mind traveling many roads &#8211; many which seemed to twist and turn!</p>
<p>I am thankful for Jackie&#8217;s encouragement in the process.  She kept me reasonably settled and spoke words whispered to her in prayer &#8211; &#8220;<em>clean report</em>&#8220;.</p>
<p>I was also grateful to draw on the wisdom imparted in Michele Cushatt’s <strong><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="http://brucercross.com/book-recommendation-undone-a-story-of-making-peace-with-an-unexpected-life/">Undone</a></em></span></strong> story, which I read and reviewed in February, in an effort to keep my mind on straight.</p>
<p>I reached out to Michele on Twitter and she was kind enough to respond with an encouragement:</p>
<p><a href="http://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2645" src="http://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet.jpg" alt="BC Tweet" width="750" height="105" srcset="https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet.jpg 940w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet-300x42.jpg 300w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet-760x107.jpg 760w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet-518x73.jpg 518w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet-82x12.jpg 82w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/BC-Tweet-600x84.jpg 600w" sizes="(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px" /></a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2642" src="http://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet.jpg" alt="MC to BC Tweet" width="700" height="161" srcset="https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet.jpg 535w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet-300x69.jpg 300w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet-518x119.jpg 518w, https://brucercross.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/MC-to-BC-Tweet-82x19.jpg 82w" sizes="(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px" /></a></p>
<p>Simple, but profound words to keep me going and an affirmation of who is in control!</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>Thank you Michele!</em></strong></span></p>
<p>Incidentally, an update on Michele&#8217;s Undone Journey can be found <a href="http://michelecushatt.com/video-does-god-use-imperfect-people/"><strong><span style="color: #0000ff;">here.</span></strong></a>  It is worth every word of encouragement that it brings!</p>
<p>My own prayers were answered in one word a day or two before the procedure &#8211; &#8220;<em>insignificant</em>&#8220;.</p>
<p>The next step in the journey occurred last week with another appearance on “<em>Man TV</em>” to explore inside my delicate parts.</p>
<p>Don’t check your TV Guide for viewing times!</p>
<p>This time, as opposed to the first, I was sent on a trip to “<em>La-la Land</em>” and did not know what they were doing with me. I was given the gift of <em>Sweet Dreams</em>!</p>
<p>Post-procedure, the specialist relayed to Jackie all looked fine.</p>
<p>However, the visual assessment needed to be confirmed by the pathology report which spelled one nice word in this context –<strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>NEGATIVE </em></span></strong>as conveyed to me by the doctor via a phone call!</p>
<p>Victorious in Round Two by unanimous decision!</p>
<p>Another blow to the mid-section dodged!</p>
<p>Although I do not want to make excuses, my absence here over the past few weeks can at least be explained.</p>
<p>The week of Father’s Day, without saying a word to anyone, I had a secret desire to buy the entire series of <strong><em>Rocky</em> </strong>movies as the theme of <em>overcoming</em> played over and over in my mind during this recent test.</p>
<p>They resonate with me, as they do with many people.</p>
<p>Unbeknownst to me and not knowing of my inner request, Jackie decided to purchase a set of the first four movies as a Father’s Day gift for me.</p>
<p>I added the final two movies today which should arrive in a few days.</p>
<p>Over the course of the next several weeks, I plan on watching at least one movie per week and sharing with you, my readers, a key take-away or two to which most of us can relate.</p>
<p>Keep Jackie in your prayers.</p>
<p>Chick flicks will be taking a back seat in our DVD viewing and I might have to subject her to at least twelve hours of boxing fun. She may be hearing the <strong><em>Rocky</em> </strong>theme song in her sleep!</p>
<p>However, it was Rocky that yelled, <em>“Yo, Adrienne!”</em> so there is a love story within the story, right?</p>
<p>Life, rather, the opposition to our lives comes at us all.</p>
<p>It takes on countless forms and it is relentless, barely giving us a chance to catch our breath.</p>
<p>In the words of the fictitious, former champ <strong><span style="color: #800000;">&#8220;&#8230;<em>it&#8217;s not how many times you get hit that counts, it&#8217;s how many times you get hit and get back up that matters!&#8221;</em></span></strong></p>
<p>It is time to get back up!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to step into the ring as some fights are worth fighting!</p>
<p>I invite you to journey with me as we attempt to distill from the <em>Rocky</em> collection some important observations and lessons.</p>
<p>Once again, thanks for your patience while I was off the grid.</p>
<p>I look forward to reconnecting with you and hopefully adding some value to you in the days ahead.</p>
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