On the surface vulnerability is something most of us tend to avoid. Like a buried treasure we often find it yields great value. According to Dictionary.com, one definition for vulnerability is the “willingness to show emotion or to allow one’s weaknesses to be seen or known; a willingness to risk being emotionally hurt.” In her […]
When we view life through the rear view mirror there is a tendency to do so through the lens of regret. Our pendulum swings toward the negative as we listen to thoughts like, “To move forward life needs to be seen through the windshield instead of always looking to the past.” I get that and […]
The process of watching a baby-turned-toddler as he or she learns how to discover their voice is fascinating to me. I would like to say I dusted off old memories of my daughters growing up, recalling the days of a time gone by in these formative moments and parental memories. Unfortunately, the rooms of my […]
Today is Mother’s Day 2021 and I want to take this moment to honor you, Jackie, the mother of our children. No one gets to choose the person to whom they refer to as Mom. Motherhood is a distinct calling placed by God on a woman as she makes way for the sacred space of […]
Whether intentionally designed or circumstantially created there are seasons in life where the Pause Button gets pushed, allowing for some life-space to exist which might not be quite evident or available. Now is one of those times in my life. I tend to avoid drawing attention to myself where possible. However, in this case it […]
We live in a day and time where one can question what is true and what is not at an ever increasing frequency. We ponder whether what we are reading or hearing is fact or fiction. If we are honest with ourselves and each other, it is perplexing, troubling, and it cracks the back door […]
In this age of digital communication, ideas, facts, and transactions which once took days, weeks, and possibly months now flow around the world instantaneously. Consider the day-to-day financial transactions of a typical household. Paychecks are directly deposited into bank accounts, supported either by a digital pay record or a bank verification email which indicates the […]
To All of the Young Women I Coached: It’s funny how memories are triggered. At any given moment one’s thoughts can be in one direction and then an image or some other reminder occurs and acts as a catalyst to worlds we once knew or experienced. Time reverses course for an instant. Such was the […]
Anyone with small children can attest, kids ask a lot of questions. They do so repetitively I might add. It’s their primary method of learning, especially at a young age. “Why?”, seems to be at the top of the question asking list. My children asked this question often as they were growing up. I hate […]
The question I have for you is this, how are you doing? To say we are living in interesting times would be an understatement. The current circumstances in which we find ourselves are unlike any of us, except the most elderly among us, have ever experienced. Societal foundations are being rocked to the core. […]