I love watching a good movie.

At times catching a good flick is a mental escape from the day to day. It is a “take five” moment to be appreciated.

At other times watching a good movie is like a magnet pulling us into something larger than life.

When I see the words “Based on a True Story” appear on the “big screen” before the main feature, something resonates deeply within me about what I am about to view.

Of all the types of movies I have seen, I am particularly drawn to stories around an underdog overcoming the odds.

My hunch is you too may feel the same.

Why is that?

I believe it can be summed up in a short phrase – we identify!

We love to be inspired and we have an affinity for unexpected outcomes.

Many refer to it as a “David vs. Goliath” phenomena.

We love to cheer on a person or a team we least expect to win.

The world of sports is full of “David vs. Goliath” analogies.  This analogy has been grossly overused.

I am currently reading a book which goes against the notion of David being a supposed underdog; the idea David was not an underdog is kind of fascinating.

For now, let’s go with the underdog persona.

  • We struggle with William Wallace in Braveheart as he fights for freedom at the cost of his own life.
  • We pray for slavery to be abolished in England as William Wilberforce leads the struggle for twenty six years as depicted in Amazing Grace.
  • We are in the stands hoping Rudy gets into one game as a wanna-be Notre Dame football player overcomes obstacle after obstacle and gets his chance to get on the field – for seven seconds!
  • Our hearts are thrilled when Jim Morris walks into Texas Stadium and fulfills his dream to pitch in the big leagues as shown in The Rookie.
  • We admire the courage of Bethany Hamilton to get back on the board after a shark attack in Soul Surfer.
  • We step in the ring and take blow after blow with James J. Braddock in Cinderella Man as he typifies the common man inspiring a community as he overcame the odds in making a comeback in the Depression era.
  • Rooting for the underdog has its place in fiction as well as Elizabeth Bennett marries well to do Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice.
  • No story was more improbable than that of the 1980 United States Men’s Olympic hockey team referred to as the Miracle on Ice. It was truly a scenario with such and improbable and unifying outcome.  It was the medicine our country needed at a moment in time!

Our stories, if we let them, can take on a similar flavor.

For most of us, life is not and has not been handed to us on a silver platter.

We scratch.

We claw.

We get knocked down.

We get back up, to get knocked down, sometimes again and again and again.

Our choice to stay down or get back up is what makes the difference.

Some of our underdog moments may be small fare – those born of the day to day scenes which enter our vision field.

Other underdog moments may truly be gigantic in our eyes. Not insurmountable by any stretch of the imagination, but nonetheless a test and an opportunity to overcome.

Whatever the case, we have a choice – stay down or get back up.

Much like the storyline in a good movie, the choice is ours.

After all, like the movies, your life is “based on a true story!”

In the list of movies listed above, I have provided a link to the official trailer.

I invite you to take choose a movie or two to get the feel of what it is like to beat the odds.

It is contagious in the best sense of the word.

Choose the awesome outcome which you deserve!

Overcome!

Can you name a favorite movie which strikes a chord with you and helps you picture how you would like your story to be told?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

From the rising of the sun to the place where it sets, the name of the Lord is to be praised. ” 
Psalm 113:3 (NIV)
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Photo Courtesy of Brittany Castillejo

The heavens proclaim his righteousness and all peoples see His glory.”

Psalm 97:6 (NIV)

Be still.

Know that He alone is God. 

Creation was made for us to enjoy.

You were made in His image.

YOU are His crowing glory and are deeply loved!

Video credit – TSO Photography

Does Father Really Know Best?

It’s been almost thirteen years since my father’s passing. During his illness time moved slowly in some respects and swiftly in others like they were experienced dance partners. The strong man I once knew was diagnosed with stomach cancer in February, 2001 only to be ravaged and weakened to the point of surrender immediately prior […]

“As a leader you’ve got to keep growing, keep stretching, keep learning…it’s about personal growth.  If you keep growing personally, whatever you are leading whether it is a team or a ministry, it is going to grow.”

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Regent University Christian Leader - Interview with Mark Batterson, author and pastor (Virginia Beach, VA: Regent Univeristy - Office of Alumni Relations, 2014), 16

Allow me to make a suggestion.

If you have opened the email announcing this post or you stumbled upon my website and found this entry, do yourself a favor.

Find ten minutes where you can be quiet and absolutely alone with your thoughts before watching the video clip. It will be well worth the few minutes you spend doing so.

About a month ago I was out of town for a funeral and had the opportunity to reconnect with my best man, Dave, on the trip back home.

During the course of our conversation Dave did what true friends do even when they have not seen each other or spoken in quite some time.

Dave spoke truth into my life when truth was absolutely the prescription needed.

As Dave listened to what I had to say, he assessed beliefs I held about myself in a particular dimension of my life. He kindly surmised I was placing limitations on myself which did not need to exist.

It was an eye opener for me and I am very grateful for his words, even though the truth stung a little.

A few days later I came across this post by Michael Hyatt entitled, “Are Your Beliefs Keeping You Stuck? “, which dealt with the topic of limiting beliefs.

Michael’s excellent post is self-explanatory.  With respect to my own limiting beliefs his words were spot on!

The video clip is from the movie, Facing the Giants.

Are there beliefs you hold about yourself that are keeping your car parked and going nowhere fast?

If so, perhaps it is time you allow the “coach” to get in your ear urging you on with words like:

• “Keep moving!”
• “Don’t quit on me!”
• “Keep driving!”
• “Give me everything you got until you have nothing left!”
• “It’s all heart from here!”
• “Don’t stop!”
• “Give me more!”
• “You can!”
• “Empty your tank!”
• “You are in the end zone!”

You are a person of influence.  You might not think so.  However, you are!

Your influence might be in large company or leading a church.

It may be small,  but extremely significant as in leading your family.

Eyes are watching you.

If you walk around defeated and are holding back, chances are those you influence will follow your lead.

I know what this movie (and clip) does for me.

Allow it to speak to you.

The question remains – Have you given your absolute best?

“The main thing I want people to understand is this: The person who has the most to do with what happens to you in life is YOU.  It’s not the environment and it’s not other people. God has given you these opportunities for a reason and not just to squander them.”

Photo Courtesy of Brittany Castillejo

 

 

Benjamin S. Carson Sr., Pediatric Neurosurgeon speaking at Regent University's 34th Commencement ceremony. (Virginia Beach: Regent University, IMPACT - Volume 5, Issue May 2014 Page 1)

Are There Winds of Change Blowing in Your Life?

WAH Bootcamp Photo Courtesy of Bruce R. Cross

I love thunderstorms. Although it might not be the smartest thing to do, I love to stand on my deck and gaze into the world above when a thunderstorm is brewing.

There is something inside of me which shouts “awesome!” when the sky darkens as the clouds are being stirred in a caldron of odd shapes and sizes as they move across the meteorological canvass overhead.