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The lyrics and melody came out of nowhere and took me by surprise on a retro journey to the mid-1960’s and the classic film, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fH2FOn1V5g"><em>The Sound of Music</em></a>.
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<p>The lyrics and melody came out of nowhere and took me by surprise on a retro journey to the mid-1960’s and the classic film, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5fH2FOn1V5g"><em>The Sound of Music</em></a>.</p>
<p>The music and words played silently, reverberating in the theater of my thoughts:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Let&#8217;s start at the very beginning</em></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em> A very good place to start. </em></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>When you read you begin with A-B-C. </em></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><em>When you sing you begin with Do-Re-Mi.</em></span></strong></p>
<p>I have seen this movie dozens of times and it most certainly is in my Top Five films of all time.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>What is the purpose of the mental trip back in time now and with these lyrics?  </em></strong></span></p>
<p>There are times in all of our lives where to move forward we need to step backward.</p>
<p>In short, a return to an elementary existence and adopting a “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” approach is warranted.</p>
<p>If we are honest with ourselves, the daily pace many of us experience moves at breakneck speed on the Autobahn called our lives.</p>
<p>We rush from one thing to the next and in time, we lose sight of the shore instead of relying on old fashioned common sense and a basic approach to life to see us through.</p>
<p>Football season is now in full swing, with high school, college, and professional teams nearing the end of their training camps and preseason drills, each preparing for their soon-to-be gridiron aspirations.</p>
<p>Most assuredly, many teams are operating under a “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” philosophy as they put the former season in the rear view mirror and embrace the here and now, as the new season is about to begin.</p>
<p>Their team success depends upon it.</p>
<p>One of the most memorable times of my life was coaching the <strong><em>Meadowbrook Christian School Lady Lions</em> </strong>basketball team from 1995 through 2005.</p>
<p>What a hoot it was!</p>
<p>The program started in 1995 with a team of young ladies eagerly wanting to try their hand at hoops. We were basketball’s version of the <strong><em>Bad News Bears</em></strong>!</p>
<p>I started out with declaring “<strong><em>the ball is orange</em></strong>” and the goal is to put the ball “<strong><em>in the round thingy up there with the net attached</em></strong>”.</p>
<p>A “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” statement if there ever was one!</p>
<p>In our first year, we only won one game and lost consistently by scores along the lines of 71-8, 61-3, and so on.</p>
<p>The post-game gatherings resembled a group counseling session, myself and the assistant coach doing double duty as therapists!</p>
<p>Many of the young ladies cried and placed blame on themselves with statements like, “<strong><em>We’re no good</em></strong>”, “<strong><em>We stink</em></strong>”, or “<strong><em>We’re a bunch of losers.</em></strong>”</p>
<p>It was a challenge to help them see something positive.</p>
<p>We went through plenty of <strong><em>Kleenex</em></strong>!</p>
<p>As time progressed, gals graduated, and new players emerged we actually became respectable as a team.</p>
<p>Basketball is a complex game with many things happening simultaneously.</p>
<p>However, no matter how complex it may appear, playing the game successfully is comprised of some basic, elemental components.</p>
<p>As with any team there are ups and downs, peaks and valleys.</p>
<p>Whenever we hit a tailspin as a team, the rule of thumb was oriented around a “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” mentality.</p>
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<li>We would practice dribbling.</li>
<li>We would practice passing.</li>
<li>We would practice boxing out and defending.</li>
<li>We would practice rebounding, running the fast break, and improving our conditioning.</li>
<li>We would practice communicating one to another, allowing for teammates to understand what was going on.</li>
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<p>I don’t know about you, but I sure can use a measure of “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” to shore up my game.</p>
<p>It is incumbent upon me to do so to move forward.</p>
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<li>In the husband department, a dose of saying “<strong><em>please</em></strong>” or “<strong><em>thank you</em></strong>”, holding the car door open, communicating with Jackie beyond the words “<strong><em>Uh-huh, Yep, and I dunno</em></strong>”, or spending time with my wife <strong><em>without the TV on</em> </strong>might all be in order.</li>
<li>Maybe I should go back to our dating days and win her heart (again) versus taking her for granted at times  – <em><strong>Ouch!</strong> </em></li>
<li>It might be good to reintroduce the word <strong><em>SIMPLIFY</em></strong> into my vocabulary.</li>
<li>Many plates are swirling in my world at the moment and all of them need some attention. It might be good to eat the elephant one bite at a time instead of trying to go at him in one big gulp.</li>
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<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><em>If you have similar things happening in your world, what is the solution? </em></strong></span></p>
<p>Could it be as easy as declaring, <strong>“<em>Let&#8217;s start at the very beginning, a very good place to start?”</em></strong></p>
<p>It might seem overly simplistic.</p>
<p>However, the journey of a thousand miles as we are told, all begins with the initial step.</p>
<p>My encouragement to you is this slow down, adopt a “<strong><em>back to the basics</em></strong>” mentality, hit the reset button, and move forward.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #800000;">What is going on in your world where a dose of “back to the basics” might be the Rx you’re looking to administer?</span> </em></strong></p>
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